If you are currently trying to find ways to get your man to devote himself to you, read on to find the answers you are looking for. If you are unsure of what he wants, these tips are going to be all the help you will need.

Every relationship is different, and when the topic of commitments comes up, it needs to be deal with very gently. Not every man is willing to talk about it and some men may not even want that type of relationship. When relationships are good, women are the first to want to commit. When you even say the word to a man, he may shy away or become afraid. You may notice some changes in him and this is not a good sign all the time. The goal here is to find out ways and tricks to make him want to stay to commit to you.

Blankly put, if he does not want to commit, there is nothing that you will be able to say or do that is going to make him. The best thing that you can do is show him that you are caring and affection and see what he does. If you are a new couple, the best tip to apply to the relationship is not to jump in bed with him. Most guys are after that and nothing else, so it's best to make him wait to see what his intentions are. If he is really interested in you, this will not be a problem for him. This is just another way to show your guy that you are not looking for a one night stand, but a long term relationship.

Men have a different concept when it comes to relationships. Flings and serious relationships are two totally different things. When choosing a woman for a one night stand, they tend to lean towards women who are willing to do just about anything. When they are looking for a girlfriend, they lean towards those who are al little harder to get. By hopping in the sack with him fairly new into the relationship, is going to give him vibes that you are easy and not a typical girl to have a relationship with.

Tell your guy how you are feeling about things. Men usually do not like to talk about emotional things unless they desperately have to. They will appreciate you telling them how you feel and you should tell them that you are ready to settle down and would rather not be with any other man and that you would like him to do the same for you.

Do not in any way, shape, or form think about telling him that you plan to leave if he does not commit. This is one thing you should never tell a guy as this will just make him mad or upset. Men are not one to take demands very well, and this will lead to him leaving as this makes you look controlling. While you two may have the perfect relationship, he may still like to be with other women. He may not feel as consistently than you at this point in your relationship.

Source by Tina L. Jones